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Lonely? It’s Not Your Fault, Here Is Why

Lonely? It’s Not Your Fault, Here Is Why

Is Loneliness Your Legacy?
Research of 15+ years proved you inherit your loneliness in three ways. If you acknowledge how this works, you can tweak it in a way to...

[Infographic] The Loneliness Trap

[Infographic] The Loneliness Trap

Lonely people STAY lonely because they get “fooled” by their emotions. Their emotions tell them that they should go home and hide. That’s the worst thing they can do. I...

Is There A Good Side To Loneliness? Can Feeling Lonely Be A Good Thing?

Is There A Good Side To Loneliness? Can Feeling Lonely Be A Good Thing?

Could there be a Good Side to the Feeling of Loneliness? Is there a biological “reason” why we feel pain when we’re not connecting with people?
Well, according to recent...

Why Would You Learn To Make Friends?

Why Would You Learn To Make Friends?

Even the popular guys are in trouble. I hear story after story of people who had a wonderful social life… until they left college, or until they moved to a...

Why Friends Don’t Call and What To Do About It

Why Friends Don’t Call and What To Do About It

It boils down to a simple choice : whether you are Individual-Focused, or Group-Focused.
This is what I call having “Group Edge”. Basically, you should build or join cliques or...

[Infographic] 3 Steps to Make a New Friendship Stick

[Infographic] 3 Steps to Make a New Friendship Stick

When you’re good friends with someone, you don’t have to think about what you’re getting from vs. what you’re contributing to the other person. But, when you want to form...

[Story] Very Disappointing Friends… You’ll Meet Them

[Story] Very Disappointing Friends… You’ll Meet Them

I wanna share with you a story that happened to me recently. I was at a friend’s house. I knew him from around two years.
He lived in a different...

Friendships that Won’t Let You Fail in Life

Friendships that Won’t Let You Fail in Life

I first came across this concept by reading a great book by Keith Ferrazzi, “Who’s Got your back”. Keith calls them “life-line relationships”.
It’s the type of relationship you have...

What To Give and What To Get From A New Friend

What To Give and What To Get From A New Friend

One great way to know if a friendship is going in the right direction is to notice how much energy each person is investing.

Energy can mean how much each one...

How To Never Have A Boring Conversation Again? (Without Faking Anything)

How To Never Have A Boring Conversation Again? (Without Faking Anything)

If you come across as someone interesting, people will be stopped in their boring ride and get fixated on you. In order to be interesting, there are some things you...